There it stood, year after year, an empty promise. One year, my grandfather decorated the branches with store-bought cherries, draping them all over the tree as you would Christmas ornaments. Then he excitedly called the family to come see the miracle!
Our cherry tree never bloomed, so one spring my grandfather draped store-bought cherries all over the tree and then called the family to "come see the miracle."
In nice weather we would sit
in our little garden, dwarfed by a big apartment house next door. Since there was no air conditioning, you
shared your neighbors lives through their open windows. On the second floor lived the McCarthy
family. Mary, Pat, and their two small sons.
Once when Pat had a beer too many one evening we heard Mary exclaim,
“You knocked me down!” and her husband answered, “Did not!” “Then what am I doing on the floor?” she
wailed. My father was always nothing if
not helpful. He rushed up to the apartment and knocked on the door. Pat opened the door immediately and offered
him a beer. Mary picked herself up and asked after the family. Peace and quiet prevailed.
Did
we have number runners and loan sharks in East Harlem? Yes of course we
did. Everybody likes to gamble. Some people couldn't afford to bet
a whole dollar so they would play just one of the three numbers, and the
runners would walk up and down the street holding up the numbers as they
came out. Playing the numbers then was of course illegal. When a person
needed money but had no collateral they borrowed from a loan shark. Contrary to
what you see in the movies, they didn’t always beat up a person who missed a
payment. They weren’t all cold hearted monsters. Sometimes when you needed
help it was better to go to your local capo than your local cop.
Holy Rosary church was
located in the middle of our street.
Every Sunday afternoon there were three or four weddings and when the bride
came out besides rice she was pelted with nickels and dimes and the occasional
quarters. We scrambled for the coins every Sunday!
Holy Rosary Church, 444 East 119th Street
Just
staying home on your own street was not boring because there were more families
on one block than in some small neighborhoods. There was a grocer and a candy
store, a shoemaker and a tailor and there was Holy Rosary where
something was always going on. Every Sunday morning the cadet corps would
parade in their uniforms and the band would play stirring marches.
There
was the wonderful weekend every May when the street would be filled with dozens
of young girls dressed as brides and the young boys in their suits with
scrubbed faces and skinned knees waiting for the bishop to come out of the
rectory. When he appeared with his tall
mitered hat, blessing everyone, people cheered from their windows and lined the
curbs, applauding.
Feast of Mount Carmel
We looked forward to it
every year, almost as much as the 16th of July, which was the feast
of Mount Carmel. Then the whole
neighborhood was festooned with banners and lights crisscrossing the
streets. The portable Ferris wheel was
set up and wonderful odors from food being cooked out on the street filled the air. The excitement mounted daily and
every night you dressed up and walked over to the main street to hear the band
play and hoped some boy might talk to you and ask you to ride the Ferris wheel
with him. Nobody went to sleep on the 16th.
There was a mass every hour and people came from all over the city to attend on
that special night.
Ohio could have its state
fairs—we had our fiestas. This big
holiday was followed by smaller fiestas for lesser saints until September came
and school started and summer was officially over.
Like I said, people might say, "You grew up in East Harlem? How awful." And again I say, actually it was pretty great.
Another great memory, Tina. Happy Birthday, too! All of us should have been so fortunate as to have grown up during that time. Kids appreciated the simple things, and life, though often a struggle, was simpler, and more pure. Thank you for sharing another installment of Tina's world with us. I told Lisa, waking up and reading this, with my morning coffee, is my new favorite way to start off my Sunday mornings.
ReplyDeleteTina, I love your recollections of East Harlem. I worked up there as a board member of Union Settlement starting in the 1960's - A great community. And it still is. Your recollections are priceless.
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